STARTS: Saturday 19 October, 12:00

ENDS: Sunday 20 October, 14:00

Conference Aston
Aston Street
Birmingham
B4 7ET

Programme
StartEndEventSpeaker/facilitatorLocation
12:00 Registration opens Ramp from entrance foyer
12:0013:30Lunch Courtyard Lounge
12:4513:15Welcome for new celebrants
(optional, but encouraged)
Conference Room 3
13:3014:30Welcome and staff updatesDeborah Hooper
Director of Ceremonies

Antonia Mäurer
Humanist Marriage Campaigner

Leilia Dore
Celebrant Network Manager
Conference Room 1
14:4515:35Workshops 1A, 1B, 1C, 1D Meeting Room 127
Conference Room 3
Meeting Room 144
Meeting Room 123
15:4516:35Workshops 2A, 2B, 2C, 2D Conference Room 3
Conference Room 1
Meeting Room 127
Meeting Room 123
16:3517:00Break and networkingCourtyard Lounge
17:0017:50In conversation with the Poetry Pharmacy: finding the perfect poem for the momentDeb Alma Conference Room 1
17:5017:55Close Conference Room 1
18:0518:55SoundbathManojConference Room 1
19:0019:45Prosecco drinks receptionCourtyard Bar
19:4522:00Three-course dinner Courtyard Suite
22:0023:59Disco Courtyard Suite
21:3001:00Drinks in the bar Courtyard Bar
All times tentative and subject to change
StartEndEventSpeaker/facilitatorLocation
08:0010:00Breakfast (included with Residential ticket) Courtyard Restaurant
09:3010:20Workshops 3A, 3B, 3C, 3D Conference Room 3
Meeting Room 127
Meeting Room 144
Meeting Room 123
10:3011:20Workshops 4A, 4B, 4C, 4D Meeting Room 123
Meeting Room 144
Conference Room 3
Meeting Room 127
11:3011:45Annual Celebrant Survey resultsAnn-Michelle Burton
Director of People and Culture
Conference Room 1
11:4512:35Ten years on from the Same Sex Marriage ActBaroness (Lynne) Featherstone PCConference Room 1
12:4513:30Closing plenaryLeilia Dore
Celebrant Network Manager

Deborah Hooper
Director of Ceremonies

Andrew West
Director of IT
Conference Room 1
13:3014:00Buffet lunch (for those who purchased with their ticket) Courtyard Restaurant
All times tentative and subject to change
Workshops
WorkshopSpeakerTitleDetailsLocation
1AMadeleine GoodallFunerals without Theology: a brief history of humanist funeralsThere have long been misconceptions around the supposed ‘newness’ of humanism as a non-religious worldview, and so too about the tradition of humanist ceremonies. In fact, humanist ideas have been around for millennia, and people have been shaping funerals to fit their humanist beliefs for centuries. Discover this significant history of non-religious people’s requests around their deaths, funerals, and legacies – from the famous to the ordinary – and explore the evolution of humanist funerals, and the role of the celebrant, since the birth of Humanists UK.Meeting Room 127
1BLinda HollieUncovering your personal brandRunning a business is tough and it’s easy to get lost in the day to day admin – filing invoices, reaching out to clients, logging ceremonies and trying to overcome the guilt that you haven’t posted on instagram in at least three weeks. Join us for this session for a deep dive back into the ‘why’ you decided to do all of this. Explore who you are, what you stand for and how that impacts the work that you do. This is not a marketing workshop, nor is Linda a marketing guru, but what she loves is an opportunity to make a connection with other people. With that in mind we’ll also dive into whether your ‘personal brand’, your truly authentic ‘you’, is the one that the outside world is getting to know.Conference Room 3
1CCas BradbeerCreative documentation for humanist ceremoniesScratch your creative itch by learning how to make ‘zines’ at the same time as hearing how LGBT Humanists ceremonies have been creatuvely documented through the groups’ 45 year history. Zines are small booklets, often made through collage and reproduced by photocopying, that have many uses for your ceremonies. Add your personal touch to an order of service or wedding album by assembling cuttings from magazines and images of your clients (for this workshop, images of people from the LGBT Humanists archive will stand in as ‘clients’). This method may appeal to clients as a creative alternative to a typed-up programme or a file of wedding photos. After the workshop, you will have the zine-making knowledge to hold your own zine-making sessions with clients. The workshop will also include a short talk using LGBT Humanists archives to exemplify how their ceremonies have been creatively documented throughout the group’s 45-year history.Meeting Room 144
1DRachel FowlerAnticipatory grief: helping people plan their funerals whilst they are still aliveIf you are helping someone plan their own funeral, chances are they, their family and friends are in the liminal space of anticipatory grief. In this interactive workshop, we will look at the symptoms of this kind of grief, circumstances in which they arise, and the four very non-linear stages that many go through.Meeting Room 123
WorkshopSpeakerTitleDetailsLocation
2AElizabeth YoungCelebrancy in pastoral care settingsThis workshop will explore the celebrancy element of pastoral care. The opportunities for Humanist celebrant work as part of a pastoral carer role in hospitals, hospices, as part of the armed forces, in prisons and within other institutional settings will be considered. Examples including mortuary viewing, emergency weddings, pre 24 week foetus funerals, memorial services, graduation celebrations and living funerals will be discussed, thinking about how the core naming, funeral and wedding training and experience provide the foundations for celebrants to train to work in pastoral care settings.Conference Room 3
2BJon TrevorImprov for Celebrants – because life isn’t scriptedDespite appearances to the contrary, Improv isn’t about being witty, clever, or quick-thinking. It’s about being totally present, noticing with all our senses what is happening in the moment, and responding both flexibly and authentically. Improvisers soon discover that planning our responses in advance immediately lets us down when others just don’t act according to our imagined plan. Instead, we learn to pivot gracefully, accept openly, and support wholeheartedly. So the skills of improv make us better listeners, better collaborators and – in fact – better human beings! So come and have a play, take a peek into the joyful world of improvisation, and discover how it can help your celebrant life, especially when dealing with the unexpected. No acting or comedy experience required, just a sense of fun and a willingness to explore.Conference Room 1
2CJessica FerrowRecognising the transition into parenthood in naming ceremoniesBecoming a parent is one of the most profound and transformational events of a person’s life, but where are the spaces to mark and witness this transition in our culture? Naming ceremonies are becoming increasingly popular as a way to welcome a new child to the family, but could we do more to recognise the parents in these ceremonies too? By acknowledging childbirth as a rite of passage, we can begin to see how, culturally, some of our human needs are going unmet in the journey of growing our families. How might we bring more meaning to our naming ceremonies, by paying attention to some simple but profound truths? This interactive session aims to enlighten and inspire you, and remind you of the less acknowledged aspects of becoming a parent.Meeting Room 127
2DClaire HobsonSupporting young people through their griefAlthough not often spoken about, bereavement and grief affect all segments of society, including younger people. Yet the support available for younger people is few and far between. The well-known support groups, such as Cruse, are mainly targeted and attended by an older generation, leaving grieving younger people feeling isolated and lonely. Over half (52%) of respondents to a survey conducted by Table 11 said that their friends didn’t know how to talk about grief, leaving them feeling unsupported. This workshop will help to highlight the ‘forgotten’ age bracket when it comes to grief – folks in their 20s, 30s, and 40s. Through the inception of Table 11 (which was born from the shared personal experience that talking about death is taboo and finding comfort in being with others who had similar experiences), we have started to connect with young people to understand their challenges and find ways to help ease the loneliness and isolation. In this workshop, Claire will highlight how the needs of the Table 11 community differ, including how to reach young people and encourage them to break the taboo around talking about loss and grief. We will work through the life stages that are experienced by this community that are impacted by significant losses and how best to offer support. The session will be interactive and an open discussion. We will share data and our members’ experiences in their own words to help facilitate these discussions.Meeting Room 123
WorkshopSpeakerTitleDetailsLocation
3AKatie IslesA beginners guide to using social media as a celebrantKatie is here to help beginners get started on Instagram and TikTok. This session is aimed at those who are brand new to Instagram/TikTok as we will be covering the basics including: how to start posting, the difference between the posts, reels and stories and when to use which one; what to post and when; the use of hashtags; using Humanists UK templates; how to engage; and ideas on how to grow a following. Along the way, Katie will sprinkle in some of the tips and ideas that she’s learnt over the years.Conference Room 3
3BEmma KimberHow to run a good wedding ceremony rehearsal‘We’re SO glad we did a rehearsal!’ This is what every celebrant wants to hear from the couple after conducting a good rehearsal! This workshop will explore the many advantages of having a successful rehearsal before the wedding day for both celebrant and couple alike. All are welcome, of course, but this session is particularly aimed at newly qualified celebrants who may not have yet conducted many rehearsals and those who are perhaps a bit reluctant to embrace the joys of taking a rehearsal. During the first part of the session, we will discuss different approaches and methods, the potential pitfalls and how best to avoid or cope with them. In the second part, we will do a short mock rehearsal to demonstrate the ideas and issues we have discussed. Hopefully, you will come away with lots of ideas to help you conduct a great rehearsal to ensure a smooth-running, professional wedding on the day.Meeting Room 127
3CRuth SilverstoneTongue tied: when you’re at a loss with their griefHave you ever found yourself at a loss when working with bereaved individuals or families? You may have been asked to conduct funerals for individuals who lived with debilitating long-term complex illness, or died by taking their own life. You might be a celebrant for the funeral of a child or a stillborn baby or a victim of murder. Many funeral celebrants feel confident when faced with strong emotions but no matter how prepared we may feel, the particular circumstances of a death and the reaction of the mourners, may leave us speechless. This practical workshop aims to develop some approaches to our dilemma. Using discussion, role play and examples from real life, participants can use this safe space to experiment with responses they feel comfortable with. Aimed at the “rescuer” in many of us, we’ll look at ways to sit with the discomfort while being emotionally present in the situation. We will be giving platitudes a wide berth!Meeting Room 144
3DAndrew WestAI in ceremonies – what is it and how do we best use it?What does AI mean? How can I use it? How should I use it? What are the risks? This session is suitable for complete beginners.

We’ll go over what AI is, and what it means for you. We’ll talk about ‘ChatGPT’ and how it can help with your marketing and even (gently) scripts. We’ll talk about how the Code of Conduct is relevant, and we’ll talk about what not to do. We won’t bamboozle you with buzzwords, and we won’t depress you with cynicism. AI is a big topic, but we’ll keep it focused on what you need to know.
Meeting Room 123
WorkshopSpeakerTitleDetailsLocation
4AFiona EganThink Like a Quallie – a creative injection for your planning meetingsIn this session we’ll take a fresh look at the art of the planning meeting, by using tools and techniques from the world of qualitative research. It’s not just about what questions to ask, but how to ask them, how to really listen to the emotional heart of the answers, and how to shape these into a meaningful story, breaking out of the ‘same old same old’ chronological narrative. You’ll learn about grounding, building trust, projective exercises, multisensory prompts and much more.Meeting Room 123
4BStephanie ForsterHow to get more naming ceremony bookingsThis interactive session will look at various marketing techniques to increase your appeal to families and help you convert lookers into bookers! Please bring a phone or tablet with you so you can connect to the internet during the session.Meeting Room 144
4CVictoria DenningThinking creatively about symbolism in our ceremoniesVictoria Denning has been accredited celebrant for Weddings, Namings and funerals with Humanists UK for 17 years. She has worked in Birmingham, Shropshire and now lives in Worcestershire. She retired after 34 years of being a Primary School teacher, working up the ladder to Acting Head Teacher in Birmingham. She is a mother, Grandmother, and Great Aunt; an organic gardener, traveler, festival goer, artist, qualified children’s meditation teacher and an avid Argentinian Tango dancer. Victoria is also a qualified celebrant’s mentor and accreditor.Conference Room 3
4DFelicity HarvestCrafting unique vow renewalsAfter many years working in the arts, Felicity Harvest trained as a Humanists UK celebrant in 2011. She does all three ceremony types, and is a trainer, accreditation observer and mentor. She and her husband had their own renewal of vows after ten years of marriage, and might do it again after 25, just for the hell of it.Meeting Room 127
Our speakers

Architect of the
Same-Sex Marriage Act and Humanists UK patron

In conversation with
the Poetry Pharmacy:
finding the perfect
poem for the moment

Improv for celebrants –
because life isn’t scripted!

Creative documentation for humanist ceremonies

Celebrancy in
pastoral care settings

Campaigning for
humanist marriage
s

Crafting unique vow renewals

Tongue-tied: when you’re
at a loss with their grief

How to run a good wedding ceremony rehearsal

A beginner’s guide to using social media as a celebrant

AI in ceremonies – what it is
and how we best use it

Funerals without theology:
a brief history of
humanist funerals

‘Think like a Quallie’ –
a creative injection for
your planning meetings

How to get more
naming ceremony bookings

Thinking creatively about symbolism in our ceremonies

Uncovering your personal brand

Celebrant Network Manager

Director of Ceremonies

Director of People and Culture

Anticipatory grief: helping people plan their funerals whilst they are still alive

Innovative approaches to supporting young people
through grief

Bringing depth and meaning
to naming ceremonies

What’s on?
Plenary speakers

A highlight of Celebrant Conference is the chance to all come together to hear from (and quiz) our plenary speakers – creative entrepreneurs, Humanist Ceremonies staff and other industry experts, and humanist campaigners, volunteers, and activists.

Workshops

‘Some very stimulating and nourishing sessions. Particularly those which allowed us to share experiences not just as celebrants but about our lives. All this feeds into our practice and helps us with our own personal development.

Celebrant Conference 2023 attendee

Portrait photoshoot
Bed and breakfast

Breakfast (included in your Residential Ticket) is served in the Courtyard Restaurant from 08:00 on Sunday.

Check-in from 14:00. Check out by 11:00. Luggage storage available. 24-hour reception.

Lunch and refreshments
About our speakers

Ann-Michelle joined Humanists UK in 2022 as Head of People. Ann-Michelle’s role is to lead on all aspects related to our people’s experience of working or volunteering with us. She oversees our people strategy and associated activities, including staff and volunteer engagement, recruitment, leadership, learning and development, and our people brand. She works alongside our Equity, Diversity, and Inclusion (EDI) Action Group to promote EDI across the workforce. As Head of People, she also oversees HR for the staff team.

Leilia Dore is the Celebrant Network Manager for Humanist Ceremonies, as well as a wedding and funeral celebrant based in Bristol. Prior to joining Humanists UK, Leilia worked for the World Health Organization and UNICEF on public health emergencies including COVID-19, polio, malaria, monkeypox, and cholera, and lived in Switzerland, Kenya, and Rwanda. When she isn’t writing ceremonies, you can usually find her swimming in a body of cold water, singing Georgian polyphony or going on adventures in her tiny campervan.

Fiona Egan is a qualitative insight consultant with more than 20 years of experience working in marketing and advertising. She asks the big questions and gathers human stories for global brands. She has been a wedding and naming celebrant since 2020, working in London and the South East region.

Lynne entered the House of Lords in 2015. Previously MP for Hornsey & Wood Green, she was a Minister for all five years of the Coalition Government. During her time at the Home Office where she was also Equalities Minister, she was the originator and architect of the Same Sex Marriage law. Lynne is a liberal, first, last and always!

Jessica Ferrow is a mother to a young daughter, and is living with curiosity through the seismic shift of matrescence – the physical, emotional and social transition of becoming a mother. She is a certified MotherCircle facilitator, having trained with Kimberly Ann Johnson, one of the leading voices in post-partum care. Jessica runs MotherCircle Bristol, which offers women’s circles for mothers, supporting them to process and integrate their journey through motherhood in community.

Rachel Fowler is a storyteller. Whether as an actor, director, writer, or coach, she celebrates human stories, and the power they have to heal, reveal hidden truths, and to transform. She is passionate about making the world more grief literate and more compassionate, both towards ourselves and each other. She’s a founding member of Table 11, a community for folks in their 20s, 30s, and 40s in the UK who have lost a close loved one.

Madeleine is the Humanist Heritage Coordinator for Humanists UK, researching and writing about the history of humanism to celebrate the organisation’s 125th birthday. She has a background in education, museums, and community history, and is also Humanists UK’s Wikimedian in Residence. She currently leads on a two-year National Lottery Heritage Fund project – Humanist Heritage: doers, dreamers, place makers – which focuses on the remarkable freethinkers and activists who changed the world, and the communities they built around them.

After many years working in the arts, Felicity Harvest trained as a Humanists UK celebrant in 2011. She does all three ceremony types, and is a trainer, accreditation observer, and mentor. She and her husband had their own renewal of vows after ten years of marriage, and might do it again after 25 – just for the hell of it.

Claire is one of Table 11’s Co-Founders and is the Content Director for Table 11. She lost her amazing Mum, Penny, to a brain tumour (Glioblastoma) in 2017, after a long battle spanning eight years. Five weeks later, Claire gave birth to her second son (a month earlier than expected). The turmoil of dealing with the grief of losing a parent at such a young age while navigating a new baby and a toddler left Claire feeling alone and isolated. Most recently, Claire lost her wonderful Father, Kevin, to squamous cell carcinoma in May 2024 after a gruelling battle with the cancer, leaving her an ‘orphan’ at 41 years old and breaking her heart even more. By being part of Table 11, Claire hopes to help others who feel lost and alone on the grief journey. Outside of Table 11 and being a mum, dog mum, and wife, Claire is a Lecturer in Marketing at University of Surrey, plus she loves to run – anywhere up to Ultra Marathon distances and is training for her first Ironman!

Linda Hollie is a Yorkshire-based Humanists UK wedding celebrant and has been writing and delivering ceremonies for the past five years. When she’s not sharing couples’ stories, Linda specialises in Career Development Learning within higher education and is a freelance workshop facilitator in all things personal and professional development. In her spare time, you can usually find her paddling about on a river, out and about in the northern hills, or spending far too much time on Pinterest as she plans her next house renovation.

Her background is in brand marketing and business development. Originally a retail buyer, she spent much of her career in publishing, intellectual property management, licensing, and children’s entertainment at Penguin Books, BBC Worldwide, and other international media companies, including in-house, as management, and as a consultant.

Emma lives on the south-west coast in Dorset, has been a wedding celebrant since 2011, and has conducted over 120 weddings. She was also a funeral celebrant for four years, but decided to concentrate on weddings and so joined the celebrant training team in 2023. She is also a mentor and accreditor. Having originally gained a degree in French and Spanish in the 1990s, her ‘USP’ is incorporating different languages for bilingual weddings. Her career in London included working for a major advertising agency, and then going freelance in the music and corporate event industries.

Antonia Mäurer is Public Affairs and Campaigns Officer at Humanists UK.

Ruth Silverstone has a diverse background, from acting, to adult education, and disability support. She trained to conduct funerals in 2017 and has become increasingly passionate about working with bereaved individuals. She volunteers as a pastoral support worker at her local hospice along with her therapy dog Winston, and is currently working towards her MA in Counselling and Psychotherapy, which she feels is a perfect complement to her work as a funeral celebrant.

Jon Trevor has been a Humanists UK celebrant since 2009. He has also been heavily involved in the Birmingham improv scene for roughly the same length of time. Jon is the founder/director of Birmingham Improv, which runs classes, workshops, drop-ins, jams, and shows. He performs with two improv groups, Box of Frogs, and with Breakfast of Champions. He is the founder/director of the Birmingham Improv Festival. He also takes the skillset of improvisation into the corporate world under the banner of Improv Initiative. All that, and funerals, weddings, and namings too!

Andrew is Director of IT at Humanists UK, and has been with the organisation for 13 years as the minor Andrew. He runs a team of three, and is responsible for the systems which keep Humanists UK running: our contact database, the central Humanists UK website and its many spinoffs, systems to manage our celebrant network, the physical computer network, and generally anything that beeps. He is also the organisation’s default photographer.

Outside the office he is a private pilot and ballroom dancer. He also represented Humanists UK on the Fourth Plinth.

Dr Elizabeth Young is the Course Leader for the ‘Pastoral Care: Existential and Humanist Practice’ programmes at the New School of Psychotherapy and Counselling. She is also a practising humanist chaplain in an acute NHS Trust, and the Spiritual Care Development Adviser for a hospice. Prior to this, she worked in the voluntary sector, latterly as Director for Strategic Development at Home-Start UK, and also in the NHS and academia. Her professional background is in nursing and medical sociology, and she has an interest in researching sensitive topics, including aspects of facing mortality.

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Bookings cancelled 60-119 days (by 20 August 2024, inclusive) from the start date will incur a 50% charge of the full price of the ticket. Cancellations made within 60 days of the Conference start date (from 21 August 2024, inclusive) will not be refunded, but may, at the discretion of Humanists UK and with no less than 21 days’ notice (by 28 September 2024, inclusive), be transferred to another eligible individual nominated by you. Any refunds for ticket cancellations will be processed within two months.

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