Hi, I'm Sally

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Humanist Ceremonies can be conducted almost anywhere. I am very happy to conduct your ceremony is a garden, or at a favourite outdoor site. Equally ceremonies can be devised to work in more conventional settings.

The range of options open to those planning a funeral is much wider than ever before. Natural and woodland burial grounds are becoming more common as are outdoor ceremonies. You can hold a funeral in your own garden if you would like to do so.

The choice of what material: music, poetry, readings, philosophy, performance is as wide as your imagination. Participation by family and friends helps make ceremonies personal and meaningful for some, for others a single voice expressing the emotions of many can be more profound.

I am very happy to make suggestions about what you might find appropriate and equally pleased to weave your ideas and favourite pieces into a ceremony that meets your needs.

Humanism is non-religious rather than anti-religious. If you would like to incorporate material with religious connotations into the ceremony I will be glad to help.

As a family barrister I spent years translating raw and often painful emotion into powerful spoken words. As a Humanist Funeral Celebrant I use those skills to ensure that every voice is allowed true expression.

I work in North London. If you would like to discuss an imminent funeral please give me a call. 

I am also happy to work with people who would like to create their own funeral now, in order to ensure they get the send off that they would wish. Please call to talk about the form and structure of your future funeral. You might find that it can be surprisingly good fun.

‘Thank so much for your visit yesterday and for the warmth, sensitivity, and energy you brought to helping us understand how to best say goodbye to my father.’

— Anon.

‘I will remain grateful for the rest of my life to you for the wonderfully kind and insightful ceremony you created for my father.’

— Anon.

‘Thank you for conducting John’s funeral last Friday, you were great and we had very positive feedback - best celebrant people had seen!’ 

— Anon.

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Sally Hay

Where I work

I am based in North London, for further afield please enquire.

Fees from...

£250 base rate.

How to contact me
Email

sally.hay@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Phone

07774 235929

Website

www.sallyhay.co.uk

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.