Hi, I'm Rachael

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“What does that mean exactly?” is often the first response when people ask what a Humanist celebrant does. With more and more people wanting choices when they marry, when I explain the limitless options that are available to them, they become excited and curious to learn more, with conversation often including, “What an amazing job that must be?”. And it absolutely is.

As an accredited Humanist Celebrant, it is my privilege to work with you to create, from scratch, and conduct your unique non-religious wedding ceremony, or renewal of vows ceremony.

Having spent several years understanding the Learning and Development needs of clients in the business world, I have enhanced my communication skills to connect with my couples and understand what they really want from their ceremony, to ensure that when I deliver it, it tells their story, and their hopes for the future, in a way that best suits them, with my energy and authenticity. It really is truly such an honour, and it is great fun too.

Humanist ceremonies can include all that you desire. As unique as you, each ceremony is as individual as you are and the possibilities are endless.

My role is to work closely with you to craft your bespoke ceremony, one that celebrates your relationship and your commitment. Your ceremony can tell your love story (if you wish), and can include contributions from your friends and family, as well as surprise elements. You or your guests may shed happy and sad tears during your ceremony. It will reflect you as a couple, your personalities and interests. Your ceremony will incorporate any personal elements you choose, including readings, music or singing from your guests, and customs to make the day unforgettable and completely yours.

I am truly inclusive and respectful of all those I work with, so I welcome if you want to break with tradition and have flower boys scatter petals (or beer boys hand out bottles) as you walk up the aisle. Or if you opt to have a close friend from your open lifestyle club say a few words, have an owl as your ring bearer, or have an all-female sea-shanty crew sing as you walk up the aisle, I am happy to welcome any fanciful ideas and can work with you to bring these to life.

Ultimately, your ceremony can be as individual, authentic and as deeply meaningful as you desire. Guiding and supporting you at every stage of our relationship, reassuring you and helping ensure everything related to your ceremony happens exactly as it should, is all part of

“My friend turned to me straight after the ceremony and said “That was the worst wedding ceremony I have ever been to”. When I asked her what she meant, she exclaimed, “Because I laughed and cried so much at what Rachael said, my mascara has run and has completely ruined my makeup”.

— Mother of the Bride

“Thank you Rachael for all your efforts in creating our perfect Humanist ceremony.

From our first introduction we fell in love with your energy and your style, and so we were so pleased you were able to accommodate us when we decided to switch counties, from East Anglia, in order to marry nearer to home.

We were thrilled when we read the first draft and loved the way that you write; the tone and length was perfect and we loved the way you included so many stories that were so personal to us.

We had so many guests come up to us after the ceremony telling us they felt closer to us through your words.

The creative touches you included for the ceremony were exactly what we wanted included, combining our interests and personalities exactly.

We especially loved the poem you included about us... the Penguin and the Bee.

Thank you so much for our brilliant ceremony and for being our Humanist celebrant"

— Mr and Mrs Green

"Rachael is a friendly professional who was an absolute pleasure to work with start to finish.

She was flexible enough to work around our schedules (which we changed frequently) and always spoke with us in such a warm yet informative way.

She made great recommendations for our ceremony and gave ideas for us to ponder and truly make our day something special for our friends and family and us to remember.

We cannot recommend Rachael enough!"

— Mr and Mrs Edmunds

"What started out as a bit of a jokey conversation, a couple of years ago, of ‘wouldn’t it be fun if we had a birthday party for my 50th but really it’s our wedding day’ turned into the most amazing day.

The idea ruminated for quite awhile, I mentioned this to you, and you were 100% behind the idea, and become part of ‘team secret wedding’ from the beginning.

The idea was to invite family and friends to a party to celebrate my 50th birthday, after the invites went out, Wayne then told everyone he is going to propose to me, and they were in on the secret. Halfway through the proposal you were to stop him and announce the proposal had already happened and the guests were really there to be part of the wedding.

The wedding day went better than we hoped, the weather was on our side, luckily as we wed on the beach! Many of the guests afterward said they were enraged by the proposal interruption by you, but by the end had fallen in love with the idea and set up. I don’t think this would have worked anywhere near as well if it wasn’t for your natural vivaciousness and professionalism.

The lengths we went to, to sell this as a party and not a wedding was stressful at times but you were always there with words of encouragement. Your knowledge and expertise helped to flesh out the day, suggesting ideas to elevate the day and the attention to detail made the day run so smoothly.

To top it all you managed to surprise the surprisers by arranging for local sea-shanty group, Sirens at the Helm, to sing for us in the evening, was the icing on the cake. Thank you for making a silly idea become the best day ever."

— Mr and Mrs Hill

"Rachael did an amazing job, we've had so many comments about how fabulous our wedding ceremony was - 'emotional', 'heartfelt', 'beautiful' are just some of the words people have used to describe it. Rachael's wisdom and experience helped us to create a beautiful ceremony that expressed perfectly who we are, our love, and the love that we knew would surround us on the day. In fact the day was full of love, laughter, tears and joy - certainly one to remember! Rachael was also the person who made sure we looked after ourselves and reminded us to breathe and take it all in! Her thoughtful and thorough approach helped us to create a meaningful and heartfelt celebration of our lives together and we can't recommend Rachael Jean Humanist Ceremonies enough. Rachael - we love you! :D"

— Mrs and Mrs Highwood

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Rachael Parker

Where I work

The joy of a Humanist wedding ceremony is that it can be held anywhere! I have delivered ceremonies all over the country in any manner of locations, however formal or relaxed, everywhere from beaches, fields and back gardens to windmills, barns and stately homes. As a sea swimmer, I am still waiting to be asked to marry a couple in the sea! Based in East Anglia, I am happy to travel and fortunately attract couples nationally.

Fees from...

£900 for a weekday ceremony, £1000 for weekend ceremonies and bank holidays, and £800 for a renewal of vows ceremony in 2025.

As a way of giving back to those who help others, I offer a discount to Blue Light Card holders, so please mention if you carry one, when you get in touch.

How to contact me
Email

rachael.parker@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Phone

07749 958560

Website

www.rachaeljeanhumanistceremonies.com

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist weddings

A humanist wedding ceremony is a wonderful option to celebrate your wedding in the way you choose: without religion but with meaning, and totally true to the two of you. They are uplifting and heartwarming occasions, personal to each couple to reflect your personalities and interests, and your love story. Sincere and significant, your ceremony will be crafted to create an occasion which is unique and fitting to you both.