Hi, I'm Nicki

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As a Humanists UK- trained celebrant, I’m acutely aware that life is short, certainly not just a dress rehearsal, and it’s so important to find the right words to make significant life events meaningful and memorable. I’d love the chance to meet you to chat about one of the key elements of your wedding – the ceremony itself!

Why choose a humanist wedding ceremony?

You and your partner are unique. Your journey together through life will be unique too. So why not choose a ceremony written just for the two of you, with readings, beautifully worded vows and music chosen to define your identity as a couple?

What’s your style? Classic elegance or “alternative”? Romantic or funny?

I relish working on all kinds of ceremonies -each one brings a different challenge, a different tone, a different emphasis. It’s great that so many couples now want the ceremony to be as memorable as the reception afterwards! I can suggest readings and symbolic actions to involve your parents, your friends, your children, even your pets…I particularly look forward to the opportunity to be able to share “your story” with your guests to ensure a focus on how you have arrived at this day and why your union is so special before moving on to promises for your future together.

And if you choose me?

If you are reading this, you will already know that you can choose the celebrant who seems most suited to your needs. There are as many different approaches as there are celebrants: for instance, my passionate interest in The Arts informs every aspect of my work. In addition to my background in teaching (Drama/English: MA in English), I’m a published writer and in my spare time love singing, collecting vinyl, making cocktails, walking my dog, trying to improve my intermediate French and … basically, anything theatrical! I’m well aware of the huge importance of what I do and will spend a lot of time getting it exactly right for you and for your friends and family. This is why I only ever do one ceremony per day; we have all the time it takes without me needing to rush off to my next appointment!

We’re interested. What happens next?

Get in touch with me to arrange an online introductory meeting (no obligation) to find out more. Then if you’re happy to go ahead, we will schedule a 2-3 hour in person meeting a few months before the date of your wedding, after which I'll send you the first draft of your unique script!

I can’t wait to get cracking on helping you with your special day!

We chose Nicki as our celebrant because of her vibrant personality. We "hit it off" at our initial chat. We were looking for a celebrant with a larger than life personality as we had a large and lively guest list. Nicki fulfilled everything said she would do and all of our guests commented on what a beautiful ceremony it was and how it was just what they expected our wedding to be. Throughout the whole process Nicki endeavoured to give us exactly the ceremony we wanted by making numerous drafts and checking on a regular basis. We can't recommend Nicki highly enough.

— Melanie and Ali

Would like to say a big thank you to Nicki for delivering a fun, loving warm ceremony, it was perfect and we would not have changed a thing, we had so many guests commenting on how much they loved and enjoyed the ceremony, this is appreciation to Nicki. The dedication and time Nicki spent engaging with us truly shone through the ceremony. Nicki also made some suggestions where we could include loved ones within the ceremony and our loved ones contributions provided an even more personal touch which touched our hearts of all our guests. We are so pleased that we picked Nicki and would highly recommend her for ceremonies.

— Caroline and Lee

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Nicki Alderson

Where I work

North West England: (Greater Manchester, Cheshire and Lancashire), but am willing to travel further afield for destination weddings.

Fees from...

£575 Vow renewal ceremonies from £500

How to contact me
Email

nicki.alderson@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Phone

07910 607338

Website

humanist.org.uk/nickialderson

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist weddings

A humanist wedding ceremony is a wonderful option to celebrate your wedding in the way you choose: without religion but with meaning, and totally true to the two of you. They are uplifting and heartwarming occasions, personal to each couple to reflect your personalities and interests, and your love story. Sincere and significant, your ceremony will be crafted to create an occasion which is unique and fitting to you both.