The arrival of a new child, whether it's a new baby or an older child that you'd like to welcome into your family - is always cause for celebration. (*See below for adult changes of name).
A naming, welcoming or adoption ceremony gives you a great opportunity to gather together your friends and family from all different backgrounds. No matter what your family structure, circumstances or beliefs, everyone is warmly welcomed at a humanist ceremony. I had naming ceremonies for both my babies and they were just perfect; so personal, joyous and uplifting. A superb way to welcome our children into the world. This is what led me to want to become a celebrant myself.
We'll meet up - ideally in person - so that I can hear all about your family and your lives together. Then I'll write a ceremony that you can trust will reflect your personalities, values and hopes for your child. As with all humanist ceremonies, there are no "set words" and I'm happy to help by making suggestions about things like readings, promises, music, symbolic acts and special ways of including beloved friends or family in the heart of your ceremony. You need to be confident that your ceremony will be perfect for you, so we'll work on it until you're absolutely happy and ready to go! On the day itself, it's important to me that everyone can relax, be present and enjoy every moment.
Having grown up in the countryside, between the shore and the moor, I often find inspiration for my ceremonies in nature, but they can be reflective of any theme you wish and we can include a child's favourite music, storybooks or toys and hobbies. I'm also a musician and passionate about the power of music in the community, so I’m always up for music in ceremonies and can even lead a sing-a-long if you like! I live near Cullompton in Devon, with my husband, teenage kids and scruffy "labracockapoo", Ziggy.
There aren’t many opportunities these days to just pause and focus on one, single, special event without distraction, but ceremonies like these offer that unique moment to mark such an exciting parental milestone.
*Adult changes of name: If you have decided to change your name and would like to celebrate your new name with a group of friends or family, please get in touch so that we can have a chat about how I can help with this.