Hi, I'm Liz

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Liz Carlile (she/her)

Hello and welcome to my page!

Saying goodbye can be difficult – even scary.  But standing by your side, I can help you find the way to say goodbye in just the way you want to.  Whether that is to celebrate a well lived, to mourn the tragic death of one too young, or say goodbye to a challenging relationship, together we can find the right way to let go. I can do as little or as much as you would like and encourage family and friends to contribute where you would like.

Being a non-religious humanist celebrant is a privileged role, one that I take seriously. It doesn’t mean that there shouldn’t be fun and laughter where appropriate but it does mean that I treat each and every moment with the respect, warmth and empathy it deserves.  

We have one life and I believe it is important to acknowledge that life whether at a cremation, a burial, on your behalf at a direct cremation or with a wider group of family and friends at a memorial.  A goodbye should be like this quote from Madeleine L’Engle “Every life is noted and is cherished, and nothing loved is ever lost or perished” 

If you are feeling a bit overwhelmed about the process why not take a quick look at my Guide to a good funeral, or give me a ring. This does not commit you to anything until we agree we are right for each other.

You will want to know more about me ...

I enjoy meeting people from all walks of life, all genders and all cultures and hearing about their lives and experiences. Artistic and creative with a love of writing, I am also an experienced public speaker and event host. Music, dancing and going to festivals are a firm favourite.  I cycle, do yoga, play sport, walk the dog, in between hanging out with those who bring me joy – my grandchildren, family and friends.  

My full-time career was in international development – on climate change, natural resources, human rights. I am passionate about how we communicate and the rights of people to have a voice in their communities – it is why Humanism makes so much sense to me. 

I believe in Making Moments Count – these big milestone moments are important, they provide the rituals that we need to truly express ourselves and the memories that shore up the foundations of our lives.  

You can also find me on www.Lizcarlilecelebrant.org & on Insta @lizcarlilecelebrant. 

“I had been dreading this memorial to be honest but looking back I am very pleased that we organised it.  We couldn’t have done it without your support and guidance…I found you extremely sympathetic and caring and very easy to talk to.  Your work was professional and of an extremely high standard.  Highly recommended”   Victoria

— Victoria

“The [funeral] ceremony went without a hitch and Liz was an absolute star, the tributes etc. were spot on and I’ve had nothing but positive feedback from the family and friends.”  

— Tony

“a beautiful, beautiful honouring of a life lived...Liz did it all so well” 

— Dan

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Liz Carlile

Where I work

I work in and around Beds, Bucks, Herts, Middx and North London. Berkhamsted, Tring, Hemel Hempstead, Watford, Amersham and Chesham and Aylesbury are just down the road.

Fees from...

£300 for funerals, £375 for memorials, £150 for interments (£185.00 with family meeting)

How to contact me
Email

lizcarlilecelebrant@gmail.com

Phone

+4477 88665412

Website

humanist.org.uk/lizcarlile

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.