As a funeral celebrant, my aim is to create a ceremony as unique as the person.
In my view, a funeral ceremony should strike a delicate balance between creating a safe space where people can grieve, express their emotions and collectively mourn whilst also celebrating the individual and their life in a way that is authentic and true to them. It allows people to come together and share an experience that marks the end of the person’s physical body and is often an integral part of the grieving process.
Non-religious funerals do not promote the idea of an afterlife which is often prominent in other funeral types, instead the primary focus is the person who has died. Providing a personalised service centred on the individual ensures that everyone in attendance connects with what is being said.
My aim is to work with families and friends to co-create an authentic and bespoke send-off. This involves me meeting with those organising the funeral and having a deep conversation about the person; remembering them for who they were and discussing what was meaningful to them. This allows me to get a sense of the person and helps create a ceremony that is as unique as the person was