Hi, I'm Jane

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I'm a Humanist Funeral Celebrant - fully accredited by Humanists UK - conducting warm, inclusive, personalised celebrations of life, funerals, memorials and ashes scatterings/interments - honoured to provide hundreds of families with fitting, respectful farewells for their loved ones, since 2014. My ceremonies, life celebrations and funeral services are always crafted with care, respect and empathy. I specialise in tailor-made, sensitive, compassionate ceremonies that focus solely on the person who has died, telling their distinct story and honouring the mark that they leave on the world.

The death of someone close to us can be an intensely private and challenging period in our lives. At such a difficult time, when we often feel at our least capable, we find ourselves needing to create exactly the right farewell, as this will be our only chance to do so. It is always my aim to help families and friends, hopefully easing some of the concern or uncertainty that can be felt when arranging a funeral ceremony. I’ll advise and guide as much or as little as you need. I’ll be with you, every step of the way, making sure we have things just the way you want them to be.

As human beings we are all distinct. We have varied views and we all live our lives differently. One thing we can usually agree on though, is that every life is special and every person matters a great deal to those who have known and loved them. So a funeral ceremony should reflect that appropriately, both for the person who has died and for all of those who will miss them.

I can create a unique, meaningful and authentic tribute, or you might wish to do that yourself - either way, I can deliver it on your behalf (or alongside you if you wish to speak or take some of the service yourself). The ceremony won’t include anything you don’t want and it may incorporate various contributions from family members and/or friends. The ceremony can include music, readings, poems and/or symbolic elements (if wanted). It can be as involved or as simple as you wish. Through our discussion and me getting to know your wishes (and those of the person whose life we are commemorating) I'll set the tone that feels right.

I regularly take ceremonies at local crematoria and in private venues, as well as leading burials at cemeteries and woodland burial sites across Sussex, often travelling further afield when asked. If you have any questions about arranging a funeral, are considering whether a humanist ceremony is righ

We knew we were in safe hands from the moment we met and our confidence was well placed . . . what a great farewell it was for Claudia. We were so glad we had you to guide us. We won’t forget you and your kind support.

— Claudia’s family

Thank you Jane for the wonderful way in which you conducted Margaret’s service. You have a unique way of dealing with grief. Everyone present was full of praise for you. You made the most unbearable day of my life pass without too much pain – that was quite an achievement. 

— Margaret’s husband

At the wake afterwards, everyone said how much they welcomed the change from a conventional religious service. We all very much appreciated the sensitive, dignified and respectful way in which you conducted the service.

— Victor's daughter

Thank you so very much for leading the celebration of my uncle’s life so beautifully . . . For many of the congregation it was a first Humanist ceremony and afterwards there were comments such as “The nicest funeral I have been to.” From our first contact with you, we have been grateful for your good advice . . . It was a thoughtful and comforting service and your closing words were inspirational . . . Thank you very much indeed for making it an unforgettable occasion.

— Kenneth's nephew

Thanking you from the bottom of my heart for Dougie’s ceremony on Monday. You gave him a truly brilliant send off and he would have loved you – fun, human and extremely thorough in summing him up as a person. So pleased you were there for us! The family and friends all said it was one of the best services they had been honoured to attend. Thank You So Much.

— Dougie's wife

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Jane Blackman

Where I work

I live by the sea, in beautiful West Sussex (between Brighton and Chichester). I conduct most of my funerals and life celebration ceremonies here in Sussex, but I'm always happy to discuss travelling over the border into Hampshire, Surrey and Kent.

Fees from...

£250 for local, weekday funeral services and ceremonies, within 20 miles of home (for weekend bookings and ceremonies further afield, my fee is a little more)

How to contact me
Email

jblackmancelebrant@gmail.com

Phone

07814 208087

Website

humanist.org.uk/janeblackman

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.