Since 2002, I have led humanist and non-religious baby naming and child welcoming ceremonies and trained many others to do the same.
The first baby naming I conducted was for six-month-old Sarah (her parents asked me to do this as I had led her elder brother Tom's funeral). The most recent baby naming was for my own great-niece, Willow. In between, I have conducted over two hundred ceremonies welcoming children into their family circles. What a privilege it is.
Baby namings are delightful, anticipating and celebrating much-loved and wanted children's potential. It is a chance for siblings and grandparents to participate, for supporting adults (godless parents!) to say out loud what they promise this little one. There is so much joy. And sometimes a few tears too.
Child welcomings—when a child is adopted or a stepfamily comes together—are marvellous celebrations of family bonds and deep commitment to children. I once led a family welcoming party for four boys—it was a long but lovely ceremony in the function room on Tower Bridge. Every family is unique.
Whatever you want for your baby or child, I will take a brief and help you create a ceremony full of love and meaning. Sometimes we have readings from children's books, like Dr Seuss. Sometimes we all sing to the child, perhaps a favourite nursery rhyme like ''Twinkle Twinkle' or 'The Wheels On The Bus'. And sometimes we explain the meaning and origins of the child's chosen name, why this unique human being will be known by this particular name.
And while I won't hold your child throughout the ceremony, I do appreciate a snuggly cuddle with a wriggly bundle, if I am allowed!
