Hi, I'm Alison

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If a bereavement has brought you to this page, you have my sympathies.

What do you do, as a funeral celebrant?

Well, I don’t just turn up on the day and say a few words!

I sit with you in your living room and really listen to your stories about your loved one; I tease out their quirks, the things they loved and perhaps the things that drove everyone else slightly mad! And I help you choose appropriate music, poems, readings and photos.

I write a bespoke tribute that tells their story in all its richness and complexity and send you a draft to make sure I’ve got it right.

On the day I arrive early and deliver the script with authority and respect, and afterwards provide a keepsake copy of the service.

Talking about someone we have lost evokes a lot of emotion. But the result can be warm, personal and sometimes surprisingly joyful, whilst also acknowledging the inevitable pain and sadness.

Whether you are expecting a very well-attended ceremony or a quiet, intimate gathering, my role is to help you say farewell with the most meaningful ceremony we can devise, and also to support you with empathy and patience.

I would be honoured to help you.

Why me?

I think I have the skills necessary to be a good celebrant: I’m an attentive listener; people like listening to me speak (I have often been told I have a “Radio 4” voice); I’ve travelled widely for business and more recently, lived in France long enough to acquire dual nationality. And I love writing, having kept a diary since the age of twelve.

I can help with:

- Funerals, cremations, traditional burials and natural burials

- Memorials, Celebrations of Life, at a venue of your choosing

- Interments or scattering of ashes

- Pre-funeral planning

Contact me for a no-obligation, friendly chat!

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Alison McIntyre

Where I work

I'm based in Horncastle, Lincolnshire, and work with families across the East Midlands, but I'm also happy to travel wherever you need me.

Fees from...

£250

Fluent in

French

How to contact me
Email

alison.mcintyre@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Phone

07852 278011

Website

humanist.org.uk/alisonmcintyre

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HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

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Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.