Hi, I'm Sophie

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Why choose me?

I am a professionally trained actress and former West End performer, with a deep respect for storytelling, presence, and the quiet power of human connection. When I began creating celebrations of life, I understood that this work is first and foremost about listening, about holding space for families to speak, remember, reflect, and grieve in their own way and in their own time.

I work with families who want something personal and meaningful. There are no set scripts and no assumptions. Every ceremony I create is written gently and thoughtfully from scratch, shaped around the person being remembered, and centred on who they truly were, their life, their relationships, and the memories that matter most to those who loved them.

What I do:

I don’t tend to think of these ceremonies as funerals. For many families, that word can feel heavy and formal, and may not reflect how they wish to remember the person they love. Instead, I create celebrations of life, ceremonies that honour someone for who they truly were, and for the life they lived.

These ceremonies can be traditional, or they can be something altogether more personal. There is no right or wrong way, only what feels right for the family.

Recently, I led a celebration of life held in a wedding venue, where family and friends gathered to share a feast made from their loved one’s much-loved recipes. Guests wore bright colours, and together they created a waterfall of home-grown flowers across the coffin. There was music, and there was dancing, because dancing had been her life. It felt less like a goodbye and more like a family gathering, filled with stories, laughter, tears, and shared memories. At the end, the family took photographs together in the gardens, sharing memories and loving and spending time with each other, just as she would have wanted.

I believe many families are not always aware and are not correctly informed of the choices available to them at this time. When everything feels overwhelming, it can be hard to pause and consider what might truly suit the person you are remembering. Sometimes, the very limited timeframes of a crematorium can make it difficult to create space for reflection, connection, and presence.

If you would like to talk through the different possibilities available to you, gently, without pressure, I am always happy to have that conversation. There are many thoughtful and beautiful ways to honour a life, and together we can find one that feels meaningful.

'You did the most fantastic job. It was exactly how I wanted it for her'

— Family member

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Sophie Reeves

Where I work

Gloucestershire, Herefordshire and the Cotswolds.

Fees from...

How to contact me
Email

sophiereevesceremonies@gmail.com

Phone

07432 152746

Website

www.instagram.com/sophiesceremonies

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

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Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.