I am a Humanist funeral celebrant, trained and accredited by Humanists UK. I offer bespoke, non-religious funeral ceremonies for cremations, burials, memorials and the scattering of ashes. I grew up and live in Bath and also have a base in central London.
Having described myself as an atheist from a young age, I eventually realised that I wanted to define myself in positive terms; by what I am, rather than what I am not. Humanism is a positive commitment to make the best of the one life we have – for our own sake and to help others. My professional life has focused on human behaviour and how we connect and affect those around us. I trained as an actor, which led on to working within training & development, focusing on changing behaviour in the workplace. I have also been involved with a theatre company that performs plays about social, healthcare and end-of life issues, the aim being to raise awareness and educate.
My decision to become a humanist funeral celebrant was a gradual process, starting with the death of my mother. When she died, in accordance with her wishes, my family held a humanist ceremony for her. This was conducted by a humanist celebrant who created an uplifting and memorable ceremony that was of great comfort at a sad and difficult time. My family have since held other humanist ceremonies and, on each occasion, I have been struck by the sensitive and collaborative approach each celebrant took in order to produce a ceremony that was right for us and our values, and best reflected our wishes. I have a keen interest in end-of-life issues and am a patron of Dignity in Dying. This role and my working life, combined with the positive – and lasting – impact of the humanist ceremonies I have experienced, inspired me to become a celebrant myself.
I am passionate about helping people achieve a ceremony that gives comfort and support, as well as honouring and celebrating the life that was lived.
I can also help with pre-planning your funeral ceremony, which can be a cathartic and positive experience. It can also help your loved ones after your death which will, no doubt, be a sad and challenging time. Pre-planning gives you and your family confidence that your farewell ceremony will be conducted in line with your wishes. Humanists UK pre-planning service allows you to discuss your wishes in advance and for them to be recorded and stored securely until needed.
