Hi, I'm Sara

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I lead warm, personal, inclusive funeral and memorial ceremonies that pay tribute to who someone has been, the things that mattered most to them and what they have meant to others. These ceremonies bring people together to mourn the loss of someone they have loved but also to honour and celebrate the life they have lived. They may take place in crematoriums, but also in whatever settings feel right: be it outdoors, in village halls or a person’s home.

I have spent most of my career in social research; listening to people and capturing the stories of their lives. I have lived, worked and volunteered with people from many different backgrounds. My experience means I am well organised, a good communicator and a calm, reliable ‘safe pair of hands’ for you to rely on at a difficult time.

I live in rural Yorkshire with my partner Diana. We are fortunate to have a good life near open countryside where we enjoy walking with our dog. But like most people we have had losses in our lives. And I know that when you lose someone close to you, you want a funeral that is true to them. This doesn’t always happen, particularly if someone has lived a life that was different to the ‘norm’, or if they were gay or lesbian. I became a Humanist Celebrant because I want to facilitate funerals that genuinely reflect the life lead and are meaningful to those left behind. I aim to lead funerals and memorial services that highlight the love, work and joy of a life and enable friends and family to play as full a part in planning and delivering ceremonies as they wish.

Over the past 5 years I have been privileged to undertake this work with and for a wide variety of wonderful people. This has included those who towards the end of their life have wanted to plan for their own funeral or memorial.

Thank you for being so wonderful in the arranging of Dad’s service this week. Your care, attention and composure as well as compassion made what has been a terribly tough time that much easier, giving us chance to concentrate on each other. Words cannot express how grateful we truly are, it really was a celebration of Dad’s life, the comments from the wider family who attended also confirmed that.

— A’s daughter, Octon

We all thought you handled the ceremony fantastically well. I was so impressed with the time you took to speak with me, my Mum, and Dad’s friends beforehand - aside from helping to make a great impact at the Memorial itself, it was really helpful and cathartic as part of the grieving process. It was also great having you there to liaise with the venue and ensure everything went smoothly. All I can say is a big ‘thank you’ - I have tried to think of things you could have done better and I can’t think of anything!

— p’s son, Beverley

Thanks again for today Sara, it was a lovely service. Everyone enjoyed it - if that’s the right thing to say - and my Dad would have really liked it.

— R’s son, York

I should like to thank you again for your tribute to B at her funeral. We all agreed that it gave a true reflection and summation of B and all that she brought to our lives. You achieved the perfect balance between pathos and humour and were so clear in both your fact finding and delivery. You also were most kind and solicitous towards us , which we really appreciated.

— B’s parents, Hull

By all accounts the funeral went very well last week and I must say I read through the script you sent over beforehand and I found it to be really beautifully written. I would be more than happy to recommend you to future clients.

— Funeral Director, Hull

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Sara Scott

Where I work

I live in the Yorkshire Wolds between Driffield and York and offer funerals, memorial ceremonies and advance funeral planning across the East Riding, Hull and the Yorkshire coast.

Fees from...

£250 for funeral and memorial ceremonies. £150 for advance funeral planning.

How to contact me
Email

sara@dmss.co.uk

Phone

07730 885400

Website

humanist.org.uk/sarascott

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.