Hi, I'm Sammy

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I'm Sammy, a celebrant accredited by Humanists UK - I'm so glad you found me and if you are here, I'm assuming congratulations are in order! I specialise in handcrafted, joyful ceremonies that put your story at the centre of your day.

A little about me

My name is Sammy and I was raised between Essex and Suffolk and have spent time living all over the UK before settling in Colchester in 2022. I spent my 20s and early 30s with very itchy feet living in Brighton, Edinburgh, London and having various bouts of travelling around South America, Southeast Asia and the states. I've spent my entire working life supporting people, particularly young people with neurodiversity, and whatever you or your family's needs on your wedding day, it's likely to be something I can help you with.

I absolutely love storytelling, especially love stories, and want to hear everything about you both! When I’m not busy running about after my toddler, celebrant work and walking my big daft Labrador I love to read, spend time with those I love and playing music – if you want your celebrant to whip out a saxophone mid-ceremony – it can be done!

Sammy's Ceremonies

The dress, the decorations, the food, they all feel important, and they are. But for me the build-up to your wedding day should be a time to think about why you love each other, why you're making this commitment, even what irritates the hell out of you (but you love them so much you put up with it). What are your hopes for the future?

Because ultimately, once your big day is done, you have a marriage. I want your ceremony to feel like the highlight of the day, not a tick-box exercise to get to the party (although the party is important, of course!), and a real foundation for what comes next.

But it doesn't need to be super serious - my goal of every ceremony is to get you, and your guests, relaxed and laughing! Don't want gushy vows or the 'solemn moment' as you'd hear the Registrars say? Great. Want some lightness in the storytelling but the vows to be hopelessly romantic? Also great! It's about making your ceremony as you want it, and I won't stop until you have a script you are delighted with!

Whether it's a humanist wedding, a vow renewal, a civil partnership celebration, or you're getting married abroad (I got married abroad so fully understand the logistics, especially for a bilingual ceremony), I'd love to hear about your plans!

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Sammy James

Where I work

Based in Essex with easy access to Suffolk and London, and happy to travel - including abroad!

Fees from...

£650 for a weekday ceremony

£750 for a weekend ceremony

A contribution to travel if applicable, agreed in advance

How to contact me
Email

hello@sammysceremonies.co.uk

Website

sammysceremonies.co.uk

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist weddings

A humanist wedding ceremony is a wonderful option to celebrate your wedding in the way you choose: without religion but with meaning, and totally true to the two of you. They are uplifting and heartwarming occasions, personal to each couple to reflect your personalities and interests, and your love story. Sincere and significant, your ceremony will be crafted to create an occasion which is unique and fitting to you both.