I am a humanist funeral celebrant.
It is a humanist belief that we only have one life and that individual consciousness ceases upon death, so funerals are thought to be for the benefit of the living; for family members and friends to say a touching and personal farewell in a manner which they feel would celebrate the life of the deceased. A humanist funeral or memorial is more than just saying goodbye, it is an occasion for recognising the value and the influence of the life that has ended. The ceremony will be unique to each and every family and during the ceremony, there will be plentiful time for reflection; to pause and to reflect on all that your treasured family member or friend meant to you.
We can work together to create the atmosphere that feels right for you and the wishes of the person who has recently died. The ceremony can be long or short, have poetry or no poetry. If you are unsure about your decision around poetry then I can assist you with that. You may chose to have a strictly humanist funeral or you may chose to add something like 'The Lord's Prayer'; ultimately, the choice is yours.
I aim to develop a personalised relationship with all of the people whom I work with at this deeply sensitive and often uncertain time of life.
A funeral is an opportunity to represent the deceased in the manner which may have been discussed prior to the death or maybe what you and your family have put together at this time. Whatever the scenario, it is a one-off occasion; a most memorable and tender time that stays deeply in your memory for the rest of your life.
I am a qualified counsellor who works with bereavement, so have considerable understanding of what you may be going through at this time and bring empathy, compassion and professionalism to the way in which I work with you.
Feel free to email me or telephone me. If I am unable to pick up the phone, I will call you back as soon as possible and then we can arrange to meet or liaise via Zoom or email - whatever suits you best.
The ceremony can take place in a chapel, at the graveside, in a hotel or at your home (a memorial) - the choice is yours.
As we let the deceased go on in peace, we take him/her with us and we leave them in the most special of places ... in our heart