Hi, I'm Phil

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I conduct humanist funeral ceremonies in Gloucestershire, Wiltshire and the surrounding areas. Each funeral is carefully tailored to the needs of the deceased’s family and is a personal, meaningful and unique tribute to the person who has died. A funeral ceremony is a celebration of that person’s achievements and their contribution to other people’s lives. For each funeral, I offer a face to face (or virtual) meeting with the family; the preparation of a draft script which you will have the chance to review and comment on in advance; and then I will lead and co-ordinate the service on the day, usually in close collaboration with a funeral director. I will give you the ceremony that best suits your needs – there are no hard and fast rules! I am always keen to accommodate what the deceased person would have wanted.

I enjoy telling the story of someone’s life, celebrating their achievements and remembering the positive impacts that they had on those around them. I am flexible and easy to talk to & am able to use the experience, knowledge and skills that I have developed over my own life to offer a service to those who require a high quality, non-religious funeral ceremony. This includes cremations, burials and other, often more informal, celebrations of life. Do get in touch to see what I can offer you.

Customers have complimented me on my sincerity, empathy and thoroughness with 5* ratings in the feedback provided to Humanists UK. Here are some of their comments:

‘Thank you for today, everyone was saying how much they enjoyed the service’

‘Everyone liked your words yesterday’

‘My father was absolutely delighted with your tribute to his wife’

‘We felt that the ceremony was just what the deceased would have wanted’

‘I just wanted to thank you, you were very empathetic and understanding and very easy to talk to’

‘Thanks for the tribute, wonderful job you have done us proud’

‘Thank you again for your kindness and support to us all’

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Phil Sooben

Where I work

I am based in Gloucester and am happy to take funerals within a 40 mile radius. In addition, I have family in the Torbay area of South Devon so am also able to offer my services in that area.

Fees from...

I charge a standard fee of £220. This will only vary if you require a longer than average service or if additional travelling/visits are required.

How to contact me
Email

phil.sooben@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Phone

07796 711832

Website

humanist.org.uk/philsooben

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.