Hi, I'm Moira

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For me, conducting a funeral is about far more than the ceremony. People who have been bereaved need time, compassion and understanding to help find a way through those early days after the death of a loved one. I take as long as is needed to ensure that each funeral ceremony I lead is special and individual. My belief is that we each have one life and that life is meaningful and unique: a personalised humanist funeral ceremony highlights this.

To take on the role of a funeral celebrant is a genuine honour. To be able to spend time with those closest to the deceased person and work with you to create the right ceremony can give long lasting positive memories to help ease the way through this painful time. I take an individual and person centred approach, sharing warmth and empathy.

I originally trained and practiced as a social worker; worked for a local charity providing support and advice to family carers; spent some years with Age UK providing advice to older people and their families before working as a senior manager of a local older people’s charity. In 2017 I trained with Humanists UK as a funeral celebrant, which brought together all the skills, knowledge and experience acquired through my working lifetime. It really is the most rewarding role that I have been privileged to take on.

Thank you again for being there for us and doing such a superb job. It was so reassuring to have you take us through the ceremony that Dave himself wanted. Your words and your delivery were of such comfort to us all, not only appreciated by us but by so many of our friends who spoke to me afterwards. You did him proud. 

On behalf of the family, I just wanted to thank you for doing such a great job yesterday and for supporting us through the process. You got the content and the tone spot on. We all felt that it was a lovely and totally fitting service. 

You may have touched our lives but for a brief moment, but the memory you have given us will remain in our hearts for a lifetime”.

“I just wanted to thank you properly for Katie’s beautiful service. You really did capture her personality and values perfectly and everyone commented on what a fitting service it was. It was obvious how much thought and preparation you put into the service and we cannot thank you enough for that. Although it’s tough at the moment I know mum will find great comfort in reading through the script in the future.”

I think we’re all pretty exhausted but really pleased with mum’s celebration – lots of tears and laughter which is what she would have wanted. Thanks so much for running it the way you did, we all thought you pitched it beautifully and really got her.

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Moira Pendlebury

Where I work

Coventry, Warwickshire & surrounding area

Fees from...

£228

How to contact me
Email

moira.pendlebury@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Phone

07944 892914

Website

humanist.org.uk/moirapendlebury

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.