Hi, I'm Matt

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Hi there, I'm Matt!

I’m a humanist celebrant who cares deeply about inclusivity, authenticity and telling your story in a way that feels real and meaningful.

I believe life’s milestones should be exceptional and I’m here to help you mark weddings, commitment ceremonies and vow renewals with warmth, honesty and heart.

Your story is unique. I take time to listen. Whether you want something relaxed and cheeky, thoughtful and gentle, or somewhere in between, I’ll work with you to craft a ceremony that genuinely reflects who you are: your values, your journey, your love.

Ceremonies aren’t just events. They’re moments that stay with you. I believe in laughter as well as tears. In tenderness, authenticity, and a touch of light-heartedness. I’ll guide you through planning, offer ideas for readings, music or symbolic gesture, then write and deliver a bespoke script that feels honest, inclusive, and heartfelt.

I work with couples and families from all backgrounds. Whatever your culture, identity, orientation or story, you deserve a ceremony that honours you. Small gatherings or big celebrations, indoors or under the sky, I’m flexible and excited to help bring your vision to life.

If you value joy, connection, dignity and inclusivity and you want a ceremony with heart, humanity and a little sparkle, I’d love to hear from you. Let’s make something beautiful together.

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Matt Ashby-Cooper

Where I work

In the woods, in a museum, on a clifftop, or a rooftop, in your favourite quite corner or overlooking your favourite view - pick a place that's you!

Fees from...

£800 for a weekday, £1,000 for a weekend. But don't let cost deter you from your perfect wedding. Please do get in touch if budget is a concern.

How to contact me
Email

matt@yourinclusivecelebrant.co.uk

Phone

07955 374879

Website

yourinclusivecelebrant.co.uk

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist weddings

A humanist wedding ceremony is a wonderful option to celebrate your wedding in the way you choose: without religion but with meaning, and totally true to the two of you. They are uplifting and heartwarming occasions, personal to each couple to reflect your personalities and interests, and your love story. Sincere and significant, your ceremony will be crafted to create an occasion which is unique and fitting to you both.