Thank you for your interest in Humanist Ceremonies and for considering me as your celebrant.
I have experienced many losses and know how important it is to have a good funeral - to acknowledge the person who has died, to celebrate their life and to provide an opportunity for people to come together to share in their loss and love.
I recognise that there are often mixed emotions within families when somebody dies and consider myself to be compassionate and non-judgemental in working with different family dynamics. I am very practical and pragmatic in managing situations and will help move things forward in a sensitive, sensible and respectful manner. I feel strongly that people should be kind to one another and I have tried to live my life being true to that philosophy. I have been an advocate - representing the wishes of others and saying words on behalf of others - all of my adult life and have lots of experience of walking alongside people at emotionally demanding times.
After training as a Humanist Celebrant in 2016, I work closely with my friend and colleague, Sonya Soundy, under the name of Heartfelt Ceremonies. We are both accredited, experienced, humanist celebrants and have had the privilege to work with many, many families, creating meaningful, personal ceremonies. We offer a supportive and unified approach. Although we are both down to earth, we each draw from different backgrounds and experiences. Our normal practice is for one of us to lead your ceremony with background assistance from the other. For one fixed fee you receive the benefits of two qualified, professional celebrants.
We know the importance of a funeral or memorial for your loved one. Each person is unique and has touched the world and people in it in some unique way. Our approach is a gentle one, accepting people where they are. We can help you say farewell to your loved one in a dignified, personal manner. We will listen to your ideas and, without pushiness or judgement, help you to create a heartfelt ceremony. We will include the things that are important to you and support you throughout the process with empathy and patience, gentleness and flexibility.
Whether you are expecting a very well attended ceremony or a quiet, intimate gathering, we would be honoured to help you say a fitting goodbye to your loved one.
Nobody knows what happens after death so let’s focus on life and what we do know –that life is precious and fragile and should be acknowledged and celebrated.
