I am a fully accredited Humanist Celebrant for weddings and funerals since 2009, so as you can imagine I have supported many many families over those years. Helping people through such an important time in their life to get the right service for their loved one is not just incredibly satisfying and rewarding to me, its also an honour . I would love to help you create the right ceremony for you or your loved one.
I am also a non religious Humanist Chaplain working in the children's wards at Leicester Hospitals and a trainer too. I believe that helping others who have no religious beliefs to have the right care and support from someone who feels the same way is important.
A Non-Religious Funeral
Whatever we choose to call it, I believe that our "final fling" should be as unique, special and individual as we are. It should reflect who we are and what we mean to our loved ones, friends and families.
A Different Journey
So many people now are letting their families know that they don't even want a funeral in its traditional sense. Many are attracted by the offer of 'Direct' or 'Simple' funeral plans to ease the burden and expense on their family, and that's great. However that type of service does make it more difficult for loved ones to say goodbye properly and celebrate and honour what a special person they are. Doing something special to mark someone's life, and achievements, as well as their importance to us is a key part of our grieving for them. So I also offer a celebratory "Send Off in Style" service too. The time and the place is then your choice - not the funeral director's availability or fitting around crematorium slots. Did you know that on average having someone lead your funeral ceremony is less than 4% of your bill? Crucially it takes the pressure off you to ensure it all runs smoothly too, and at a fraction of the cost of a "normal" funeral.
Preparing Ahead
I also support many people living with a life limiting prognosis who wish to get everything in order, especially their funeral. I work around their health challenges and energy levels in order to prepare a service that is exactly what they want, for the day it is needed.
It is a privilege to help an individual or a family tell their unique stories, whatever those stories are! Together, we can create the right ceremony that does justice to them and their unique life.
Let me help you, if I can.