Hi, I'm Harriet

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Welcome and congratulations đŸ„°.

The fact that you have found your way here means that you are exploring the idea of having a wedding ceremony that is a bit different. Good for you!

It is so important that your wedding should be a true representation of your values and beliefs as a couple, while honouring the traditions and rituals you were each brought up with.

I have over a decade of experience of conducting wedding ceremonies and now have the pleasure of supporting and mentoring new wedding celebrants. 

By meeting with you and talking about your relationship I am confident that I can create a ceremony that is ‘really you’, that will make your guests feel they are taking part in something heart-warming, personal and extra special.

My aim is to deliver every wedding with warmth, humour and a genuine sense of delight in the occasion and affection for those involved.

I am very proud of the testimonials from couples over the years.

Please click on the link opposite to watch a little video I made, find out more about Humanist weddings, read the kind words I have received and enjoy some photos of the lovely couples I have worked with.

While religious faith is not part of a Humanist wedding, I am happy to help you include elements of your different cultures and beliefs to reflect the importance of your family and background on your special day.

Each of my scripts is individually written for the couple.

I will work jointly with you through the planning and preparation of your ceremony.

I have particular experience in developing ceremonies which blend elements of Jewish wedding traditions with those of other cultures.

I am loving being back in the wedding season. I still have some availability in 2025, and am getting booked up for 2026.

If you would like to discuss your wedding needs informally, without obligation, online, on the phone or over a coffee please drop me an email

'Harriet's warm and supportive guidance helped us create a ceremony which really captured the essence of what we wanted to convey, both to each other and to our friends and family. Many of our friends have mentioned how much they enjoyed it and how the ceremony reflected something unique to us. Harriet made herself very available throughout the whole planning process (also, she gave us a gentle nudge when necessary!) As we look back on the day, Harriet's genuinely lovely personality brought something to our celebration which will remain part of our many special memories.'

— Anne and Christine - Burgh House, Hampstead

'We wanted to say a huge thank you for your role in our special day. You were a wonderful celebrant and so many guests complimented the service you put together. It made the ceremony truly unforgettable for us. I know Simon was grateful for your calming support as he was waiting for me to arrive. Oh, and we also appreciated your humour when my dad went a little 'off script'!

— Simon and Sorrel - Matara, Gloucestershire

I just wanted to say thank you so much for Friday! The ceremony was absolutely perfect and exactly what we wanted. Thank you for guiding us through the process so expertly and helping us craft the ideal script, vows and readings, and for being so relaxed and helpful on the big day! We both appreciate it so much.

— Ben and Daniella - Micklefield Hall

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Harriet O'Brien

Where I work

I work in North and Central London, and Hertfordshire. I am also occasionally available for weddings abroad.

Fees from...

Provided on request

How to contact me
Email

harriet.obrien@yahoo.co.uk

Website

humanist.org.uk/harrietobrien

HUMANIST CEREMONIESℱ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist weddings

A humanist wedding ceremony is a wonderful option to celebrate your wedding in the way you choose: without religion but with meaning, and totally true to the two of you. They are uplifting and heartwarming occasions, personal to each couple to reflect your personalities and interests, and your love story. Sincere and significant, your ceremony will be crafted to create an occasion which is unique and fitting to you both.