Hi, I'm Gill

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When someone that we love dies, the loss can feel overwhelming. Just as each person and each relationship is unique so is each loss. A Humanist ceremony, that places the person who has died at its heart, is a positive way to remember and celebrate the life lived in a way that is true to them.

Planning a funeral or memorial can appear daunting but together we can tell their unique, complex and human story through recollections, memories, tributes, poetry and music.

Every funeral is different, and as we take the time to listen, as celebrants, we genuinely love to hear the stories that family and friends have to tell. Listening enables us to build a picture of the person lost and the myriad of ways that their life impacted those left behind, we can tell their story whilst also reflecting on the effects that their life has had on those those who remain and the treasured memories that will be carried forward.

It can sometimes be the case that prior to death relationships have been strained and with care and empathy I can help you to traverse the difficult territory of writing a fitting tribute whilst also recognising and appreciating that life can be complex and complicated.

If you are considering planning your own funeral, a memorial or an interment do get in touch and I will be happy to help.

Being a part of an end of life ceremony is a rare privilege and is one that means a lot to me, I will always do my very best to ensure that every one of my families have the ceremony, both in content and tone, that they are looking for.

For more information please feel free to contact me directly or ask your funeral director to get in touch.

www.gillsimkisshumanistcelebrant.com

Thank you for the script you wrote for Dad, it really did capture his personality. Thank you again for the tribute on the day it was perfect.

— Anne

What a warm and beautiful ceremony

— Kathryn

Thank you for all your help in organising our sisters memorial, you made it much easier and we loved some of your ideas, we couldn't have done it anywhere near as well without you.

— Pat

I just want to say thank you for making, what is never an easy day for anyone, go so smoothly, and for all your help and kindness in organising everything.

— Fiona

Thank you so much for such lovely service and for all your kind words.

— Judith

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Gill Simkiss

Where I work

I am based in the Eden Valley, Cumbria and happy to travel throughout the county and surrounding areas of Yorkshire, Lancashire, Teeside and the Borders. One of the joys of being a celebrant is that we can work anywhere and I am always happy to travel.

Fees from...

£225, this is inclusive of travel within 25 miles, all communication, family meeting and conducting the ceremony.

How to contact me
Email

gill.simkiss@humanistceremonies.org.uk

Phone

07971 315515

Website

humanist.org.uk/gillsimkiss

HUMANIST CEREMONIES™ is the network of more than 550 celebrants, trained by national charity Humanists UK to a gold standard to provide memorable and meaningful humanist ceremonies to non-religious people. Operating throughout England, Wales, Northern Ireland and the Channel Islands, we deliver authentic, tailor-made and heartfelt ceremonies for life’s key moments. They are always inclusive and welcoming, regardless of the beliefs of those attending.

You can trust Humanist Ceremonies celebrants: We are DBS-checked, fully insured, and regularly peer reviewed for quality assurance. We are committed to a code of conduct, and have a transparent and robust complaints process in the rare case of a problem. We all pay a monthly fee to Humanists UK to further support the work of the charity, and are part of a regional network for like-minded celebrants for support and learning.

Humanist funerals

Humanist funerals, memorials and ash ceremonies are a fitting way to honour a unique life with warmth, sensitivity and meaning, but without reference to religion or an afterlife. They put the story of the person who has died at the heart of the ceremony, paying tribute to them and the legacy they leave, and provide an opportunity to bring people together, not just to share sadness but to celebrate a life lived.