...and I would love to work with you to create the perfect non-religious funeral or memorial for your loved one.
The death of a loved one is a uniquely personal experience; every bereavement is different, and we each experience grief in our own way. I will help you to create a ceremony that is as unique as the person you are commemorating; a chance for people to come together to remember the life of your loved one and to say a collective and dignified goodbye.
This doesn't have to be in a funeral setting. More and more people are opting to arrange direct cremations in order to make things simpler for their families once they are gone, but this can leave families and friends somewhat adrift without the chance to acknowledge and share their loss. A Humanist memorial service is a perfect way to fill that void, and I have a flexible approach to using a venue and at a time that suits you - whether that's Sunday afternoon in a garden or Tuesday evening in the pub!
My method is to spend some time with you listening to your stories and memories and exploring different options for your ceremony. After some reflection, I will share with you a first draft of your ceremony; in this way, we can work together until we get it just right.
As a Humanist, I believe that we each have just one life, and when that life comes to an end it deserves an act of remembrance that is truly personal and meaningful. Whether you are looking to arrange a funeral or a memorial event, there is no right or wrong approach:
- You may know just what needs to be said, or you may want to share your stories with me so I can help to find the right words
- You may have lots of ideas about music and readings, or you may want some help with finding something that feels right
- You may have family members who want to stand up and speak, or you may have people who want to contribute in other ways
- Whether you want a lively and interactive ceremony or a quiet, reflective one I can guide you through the options to find what works for you and your loved one.
You will probably have many questions. Please feel free to give me a call for an informal chat with no obligation.